
A collection of practical advice from our Clinical Psychologists. Drawing on current research and evidenced based psychological therapies.
The Tunbridge Wells Psychologist Blog
Parenting a Child with ADHD – Practical Tips That Actually Help
Parenting a child with ADHD can be joyful, exhausting, rewarding, and overwhelming—sometimes all within the same hour.
Helping Your Primary Aged Child Manage Emotional Overwhelm
Young children feel things deeply. Whether it’s excitement, frustration, worry, or sadness, their emotional world can be intense—and sometimes unpredictable.
When Good Isn’t Good Enough: Supporting a Perfectionist Teen
Many teenagers set high standards for themselves. But for some, those standards become rigid, unrealistic, and self-punishing. Perfectionism in teens often hides behind good results, tidy bedrooms, or achievement—but underneath may be anxiety, self-doubt, and burnout.
Taming the Inner Critic: Helping Your Child Develop Self-Kindness
Some children seem confident and capable on the outside, but inside they carry a harsh inner voice that’s constantly criticising them. They might call themselves “stupid,” “rubbish,” or say they “always get things wrong.”
The Perfectionism Trap: When High Standards Harm Your Wellbeing
Perfectionism is often misunderstood. On the surface, it can look like ambition, attention to detail, or having high standards. But underneath, it’s frequently driven by fear—of failure, of not being good enough, of being judged.
Anxiety 101: When Worry Becomes Overwhelming
Anxiety is a normal part of being human. It’s our body’s natural response to danger—our internal alarm system. A certain level of anxiety can even be helpful.