
A collection of practical advice from our Clinical Psychologists. Drawing on current research and evidenced based psychological therapies.
The Tunbridge Wells Psychologist Blog
Shifts That Make a Big Difference: Practical Wellbeing Habits to Try Today
We often think that improving our mental health requires sweeping changes - but in reality, small, consistent steps can transform how we feel. Especially for those living busy lives, even gentle shifts can foster calm, clarity, and connection. Here are three simple, research‑backed changes that you might try.
Burnout: Evidence Based Practical Strategies
We’ve all felt it, when work becomes more than a task and slips into exhaustion, cynicism or a sense of failing at everything. That’s burnout: a state of chronic stress that leaves you mentally and physically drained. If that rings a bell, know this: there are research‑based strategies that can genuinely help.
Why support beyond the first year matters: understanding extended perinatal mental health
Perinatal mental health has rightly received increasing attention in recent years. While most discussions focus on pregnancy and the first twelve months postpartum, data suggests many women continue to experience significant distress beyond that timeframe, highlighting the importance of extended care and awareness.
Micro-Panic: Recognising and Managing Mini Panic Attacks at Work
Micro-panics are brief, intense surges of panic triggered by stress at work. Recognise signs like racing thoughts and adrenaline rushes, learn why they happen, and discover practical strategies to interrupt them and get support.
How to Face Your Phobias with Confidence
Discover how exposure therapy helps you face your phobias. Learn what phobias are and follow a step-by-step plan to overcome fear with confidence.
Parenting a Child with ADHD – Practical Tips That Actually Help
Parenting a child with ADHD can be joyful, exhausting, rewarding, and overwhelming—sometimes all within the same hour.
Helping Your Primary Aged Child Manage Emotional Overwhelm
Young children feel things deeply. Whether it’s excitement, frustration, worry, or sadness, their emotional world can be intense—and sometimes unpredictable.
When Good Isn’t Good Enough: Supporting a Perfectionist Teen
Many teenagers set high standards for themselves. But for some, those standards become rigid, unrealistic, and self-punishing. Perfectionism in teens often hides behind good results, tidy bedrooms, or achievement—but underneath may be anxiety, self-doubt, and burnout.
Taming the Inner Critic: Helping Your Child Develop Self-Kindness
Some children seem confident and capable on the outside, but inside they carry a harsh inner voice that’s constantly criticising them. They might call themselves “stupid,” “rubbish,” or say they “always get things wrong.”