A collection of practical advice from our Clinical Psychologists. Drawing on current research and evidenced based psychological therapies.

The Tunbridge Wells Psychologist Blog

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An Introduction to Compassion Focused Therapy

Compassion Focused Therapy was developed in the UK by Professor Paul Gilbert. It combines ideas from psychology, neuroscience, and mindfulness to support people who experience high levels of self-criticism or shame.

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Back to School When School Feels Scary

As September rolls in, the buzz of new beginnings seems to be everywhere. But for some families, the return to school can bring dread rather than excitement.

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Navigating Post‑Natal Burnout with Compassion and Practical Support

Welcoming a new baby into the world is profoundly joyous and profoundly exhausting! Between night feeds, unrelenting to‑do lists, emotional shifts and the subtle pressure to “get back to normal” so quickly, it’s common for new parents to find themselves feeling depleted, overwhelmed or disconnected.

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Burnout: Evidence Based Practical Strategies

We’ve all felt it, when work becomes more than a task and slips into exhaustion, cynicism or a sense of failing at everything. That’s burnout: a state of chronic stress that leaves you mentally and physically drained. If that rings a bell, know this: there are research‑based strategies that can genuinely help.

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Building Resilience in Anxious Children – Small Shifts, Big Impact

Resilience is often misunderstood as “being tough” or “bouncing back” quickly. But for children, especially those prone to anxiety, resilience is more about learning how to manage uncomfortable feelings, recover from setbacks, and feel confident enough to try again after something feels hard.

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